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To Whom Much Is Given...

Who would've known that in 2007, you could potentially launch a career just by recording videos and posting them on YouTube? That no matter what your niche is, you could gain followers, a term would be created to explain your job title, and people that have never met you would trust what comes out of your mouth. To whom much is give, much is required! Fast forward 11 years later and it's one of the fast growing career fields on the market. Everyone wants to be a breakout, viral video star. It only takes one for you to gain thousands of followers per day.

When I was growing up, I had no choice but to finish high school (I was going to do that anyways) and go to college. I did the college thing, but I quickly found out it was not for me. Mainly because I got pregnant and didn't want to go back, but that's not what we're talking about. (Don't judge me.) I never knew what it was that I truly wanted to do because all of the things I thought I wanted was what my parents wanted for my life. I struggled in college because of that reason. I was uninterested in the classes, therefore, I put forth no effort. I mean, I had a decent GPA but it wasn't what I wanted to do. It's taken ALL of my adult life to figure out that beauty and blogging was a deep passion of mine. I mean, why not share my knowledge of all things beauty with the world, right?

Being a millennial in today's world, we are misunderstood. We are called crazy for following our true passions. We are not supported enough by older generations. I grew up with two older sisters. They were 10 and 12 years older than me. They both followed the traditional path: Graduate, college/military, work force. My younger brother and I, though we were raised the same, still followed our true passions. I mean, we both went to college because it's what was expected of us, but he eventually went into the military and I went to cosmetology school. Failing, with our parents, was not an option.

I'm sure I'm not the only one out here. My best friend has two degrees and has a cosmetic business, which doesn't fall under either of her degrees. My brother is a video game influencer on Twitch. So many different avenues to take in the world and we followed what we were told because our mommas didn't play that. Now here we are staring down 30 (I'm actually 30, they are not) and we all have basically started over because for the longest time, we have not been happy in what we were told we were SUPPOSE to succeed in.

Younger millennials don't have to worry about what we, the older millennials had to go through. They are supported because they are young and have their whole life ahead of them, while the elder millennials are looked at as crazy because we've lived a good bit of our lives. "Don't you think starting over would hurt you more than it will help?" I'm here to encourage you, no matter your age, to say "SCREW YOU SOCIETY!" What ever your passion, DO ITI!!! If you really love what you do, you will succeed. Try every version of Plan A and then try Plan B. Never let anyone tell you your dreams and passions are dumb and that it won't work. Once you start to believe them, that's when it becomes true.

Melissa Butler of The Lip Bar was rejected from 'Shark Tank,' and now her brand is being sold in Target across the country. FOLLOW! YOUR! DREAMS! I hope that I can be a flame for others as some have been for me. What are your passions? Did you go the traditional route or the road less traveled? Let me know below and as always, thank you for your constant support. I've been MIA a bit since I started school. I'm not going anywhere. Until next time...


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Phoenix Beauty 101 started as my name in my faux business plan when I was in cosmetology school. I needed a name to finish my project to graduate. It stuck! Fast forward and its been my social media persona since 2011...

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